There's a reason every story that moves us follows the same shape: A fall. A descent. A separation from everything safe. And then, if we're lucky enough to surrender, a return.
Joseph Campbell calls this the Monomyth: the universal structure behind all great stories. But it's not just myth. It's not just Star Wars or Harry Potter or Buddha under the Bodhi Tree.
It's us.
I've had to die to who I thought I was, again and again. I had to let go of the version of me that never got sick. The one who could always outrun fear with achievement. The one who thought impact came from perfection.
Maybe you've had your own version of this too. Maybe you had to let go of being the strong one. The fixer. The one who had all the answers.
Shift:
But here's the twist most people miss: You don't come back the same. You come back remade. Not because life gave you a choice, but because the path demanded it.
Campbell wrote: "The really creative acts are represented as those deriving from some sort of dying to the world." That line hit me like a freight train because I knew what it meant.
You don't wait for the storm to end to become who you're here to be. You act as if you already are, even when your hands are still shaking.
For me, that's walking into a keynote with scan results still echoing in my mind. That's writing words like these while still navigating a healing path I didn't choose but refuse to fear.
It's not about pretending. It's about becoming.
Uplift:
In every hero's journey, there's something you bring back. It might not be a cure. It might not be a trophy. But maybe it's peace. Or truth. Or a voice.
You return not just for yourself, but for others. You return to say: "I went into the dark, and here's what I found."
The world doesn't need your perfection. It needs your return. Not when the storm is over, but as living proof that you can walk through fire and still come back with love in your hands.
Here's where to pause and reflect:
• What version of me am I being asked to let go of? • What story about who I "have to be" is ready to die?
• If I stopped resisting the storm, what would I bring back from it?
You've already said yes to the journey. You're not just surviving. You're carrying the medicine back. And that is the real gift of the journey.
Hope isn't a passive wish. It's a strategy. And sometimes that strategy requires letting go of who we were to become who we're meant to be.
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