There I was again, standing at another crossroads.
You know that feeling when you want to move forward but it's like your feet are shackled to the ground? When every fiber of your being knows what you want to do, but your mind starts its familiar routine of connecting every past disappointment into one indigestible stew?
Remember when that didn't work out? Remember how you felt when it fell apart? Remember all the reasons why this is just going to be more of the same?
My brain had become a master chef, stirring up every stumble, every moment I'd fallen short, every time I'd tried and didn't quite make it. The recipe was always the same: take one part legitimate concern, add three parts catastrophic thinking, season with shame, and serve it up as "protection."
But here's what I've learned: this isn't a sign that something's wrong with you. This is you being beautifully, perfectly human.
The Failure Stew
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Your brain isn't trying to sabotage you. It's trying to save you.
Every time you stand at a crossroads—whether it's starting that business, having that conversation, or taking that leap—your mind pulls out its recipe book. It connects every past disappointment with the sole mission of getting you to reject the very thing you want to do.
What if you fail again? What if people judge you? What if you're not ready?
We all have doubts. It's important to question anyone who tells you otherwise.
But here's the question that changes everything: What if it does work out this time?
What if every single experience you've had—the ones you call failures, the ones that didn't go as planned—what if those weren't detours? What if they were exactly the set of tools you need to get up this mountain?
The Nucleus of Greatness
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I want you to think about anything you consider great in this world. Really look into it.
What you'll find is that "failure" was the nucleus that brought all these wonderful things into our external world. The unknown is scary, and the feeling of lack and wanting carries a heavy emotional load, but your strength has been measured many times before.
You're still here.
The path before you has been made for you. No matter how long you stare and wonder what it will bring, nothing will change. You'll always wonder what could be down that path, what magic it holds for you.
The Choice Between What If and Should Have
Here's the truth: It's scary to move forward. It's also scary not to move.
Isn't it always better to lean towards the "what if" instead of the regrets of the "should haves"?
You are not and never have been made to suffer the pain you put yourself through in a quest to stay comfortable when you know full well that the life you want is waiting to emerge through and as you.
We all are waiting for you.
Which would the future you choose?
Your Starting Line Is Calling
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You haven't failed at anything, regardless of what others want to tell you or even what you choose to believe about yourself.
Your feet aren't shackled. They never were. That first step is waiting for you to remember that impossible is optional, and your starting line is exactly where you're standing right now.
Hope isn't a passive wish. It's a strategy. And your strategy starts with that first step.
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