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The Moment I Stopped Planning My Life Away

by Jason Tharp on Jun 11, 2025
The Moment I Stopped Planning My Life Away

I used to be a master planner.

Not the spreadsheet kind. I didn't have color-coded calendars or fancy organizational systems. I was messier than that. I was the kind of planner who would spend weeks thinking through every possible scenario in my head, mapping out conversations that might never happen, rehearsing presentations until they were perfect, waiting for the ideal moment when all the stars aligned.
I was a recovery perfectionist who believed that if I just thought it through enough, planned it out completely in my mind, then I could control the outcome. I could avoid failure, embarrassment, or disappointment.
And you know what all that mental planning got me?
Absolutely nowhere.
I was so busy planning my life in my head that I forgot to actually live it. So busy preparing for the perfect moment that I missed every imperfect opportunity standing right in front of me. I had become a passenger in my own existence, paralyzed by the need to have it all figured out before I started.
Then brain cancer happened.
Suddenly, all my carefully crafted mental rehearsals became irrelevant. The universe had other ideas, and no amount of overthinking could save me. I was given seven months to live, and for the first time in my adult life, planning felt pointless.
But here's what cancer taught me that years of perfectionist planning never could: All that mental preparation meant absolutely nothing because the world could shift in a second underneath our feet.
One day I was Jason the guy who had everything mapped out in his head. The next day I was Jason the guy with a brain tumor, staring down a timeline that made all my perfect plans look like elaborate fiction.
That's when the real truth hit me like a freight train: We don't have massive control over every detail of our lives. We never did. That control was always an illusion, and perfectionism? Perfectionism is just a lie we tell ourselves, and it's the quickest way to make sure you actually never get to where you want to go.
Because while you're busy perfecting the plan, life is busy happening. While you're waiting for the perfect moment, the imperfect moments that could change everything are slipping by unnoticed.
Cancer didn't just threaten my life. It shattered my need to have everything figured out before I started. And in that shattering, I found something I'd been planning away for years: the courage to begin before I was ready.
That's when I discovered something revolutionary: Hope without action is just a wish. But action without perfection? That's where miracles live.

The Planning Trap

Here's what I've learned about over-planning: It's fear dressed up as productivity. We tell ourselves we're being responsible, strategic, thorough. But really? We're just scared to start before we're ready.
The truth is, you'll never be ready. Not really.
There will always be another detail to consider, another scenario to plan for, another skill to master before you take that first step. But while you're busy planning, life is happening. Opportunities are passing. Dreams are aging.
Your imagination can transport you from nothing to everything possible. It can show you visions of what could be, paint pictures of your potential, whisper promises of transformation. But if you spend all your time in the planning phase, how do you ever bring that vision into reality?
You don't need permission to start. You just need to start. Then you'll be ready as things move.

The Power of Persistent Imperfection

This is where the H.O.P.E. Algorithm's third pillar, Persistent, becomes everything. Being persistent doesn't mean having it all figured out. It means moving forward imperfectly, taking the next right step even when you can't see the whole staircase.
Persistence is showing up before you're ready. It's choosing progress over perfection, action over analysis paralysis. It's understanding that the universe conspires to help those who help themselves, but you have to take that first step into the unknown.
After my diagnosis, I stopped planning and started doing. I wrote my first children's book not because I had a perfect publishing strategy, but because I had something to say. I began speaking not because I had mastered the art of keynoting, but because I had a story worth sharing.
Each imperfect action led to the next opportunity.
Each messy step forward revealed the path I couldn't see from the starting line.
The universe isn't waiting for your perfect plan. It's waiting for your imperfect action. It's conspiring to bring you exactly what you need, but only when you demonstrate your commitment by moving forward.

Your Starting Line Is Here

Right now, you're probably planning something. Maybe it's a career change, a creative project, a relationship conversation, or a dream you've been nurturing for years. You're waiting for the right time, the perfect plan, the ideal circumstances.
But here's your permission slip: Start before you're ready.
Hope is nothing more than a passive wish when no action is planned. We can use our imagination to transport us from nothing to all things possible. But if we spend all our time planning, how do we ever bring that form into reality?
It's not about being perfect, but persistent in our forward movements, bringing us one step closer to the reality we are creating. This is how we align with what the universe is conspiring to bring for us.
Your dreams aren't waiting for your readiness. They're waiting for your courage.
Stop planning your life away. Start living it into existence.
Take one imperfect step today. Then another tomorrow. Trust that persistence, not perfection, will align you with what the universe is conspiring to bring for you.
Hope isn't a wish. It's a strategy. And your strategy starts with action, not planning.
You don't need permission to start. You just need to start.
Then you'll be ready as things move.

What's one thing you've been over-planning instead of starting? Your dreams are waiting for your courage, not your perfect plan.
Ready to stop planning and start creating? Join thousands getting weekly hope strategies delivered straight to your inbox. No fluff, just actionable insights to help you move from planning to doing.
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Tags: Action vs Planning, Brain Cancer Journey, brain cancer survivor story, hope strategy action, over planning vs action, Perfectionism, perfectionism paralysis, stop planning life away
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